Welcome to the first article in the Twin Soul Series. 

The Zeb & Zarna articles in this series are designed to link from one to the next, building an understanding based on the previous article. If you are reading this article out of sequence we encourage you, when confronted with an unfamiliar term, to seek Zeb & Zarna's definitions by following the hyperlink here -- glossary -- or at the top of each page. 

Mel (M):> Dearest Zeb, we need your help in understanding the difference between a Twin Soul relationship and a Soul Mate relationship. Will you please explain? 

Zeb (Z):> I was wondering when you would finally get around to asking. 

M:> Well, you have explained this to Caryl and me, but others would appreciate getting the 'skinny' straight from the horse's mouth, so to speak. 

Z:> Horse's mouth? 

M:> Figuratively speaking. No disrespect intended.

Z:> (Grin) None taken. I would be pleased to expand on the subject of Twin Souls and Soul Mates for almost everyone confuses the two.  

But before we begin, a word about channeling is in order.  Some believe Channeling is a psychic process--that one must be a psychic, a saint, or a holy person in order to hear God. I tell you this: Anyone can accomplish this spiritual process if they will allow themselves. You  need no intermediary to hear God.  

I Am God, and I speak, but I have never spoken in your languages past or present. Your religions tell you that I do and have in order that they may control my words, and thereby my messages to you.

God has never spoken with words. We speak through inspiration directly to the knowing center of our Speaker's mind, and the Speaker gives meaning related to others in your language to what we telepathically convey. That is the way it has always been. As is usually the case, some meaning will be lost in the process. If that happens here, it will be purely unintentional. Melvyn and Caryl have nothing to gain from altering my words. They can and do update what I have said from time-to-time with my full authority. What they learn from Zarna and me, they pass on freely with love. Any mistakes in translation will be put right in following messages. 

M:> Thank you for explaining that. 

Z:> You are quite welcome. And now to our subject: "Twin Souls:  A Misunderstood Reality." My intent will be to bring to light what most of you already know deep in your hearts but may not have easy access to the memory. 

Look closely at the Yin & Yang symbol.  We will use this symbol to explain the splitting of the soul into Twins before the incarnation process begins. Visualize the light and dark halves separating and reforming into complete circles "souls."

Within the masculine light half you have a dark dot—the seed, or memory, of the missing feminine half. Within the feminine dark half you have a light dot—the seed, or memory, of the missing masculine half. Both keep seeking, but why can't they find each other? Both Twin Souls are affected by  The Universal Law of Attraction. "Like attracts like."

After separating, the two Twins are as unlike as two souls can be. One is almost totally dark and the other is almost totally light. They repel each other. The light half with only a dark dot represents a primitive Alpha male heterosexual that we will call a "Hetero-g male"—meaning an opposite-gender oriented male. This is more fully explained at the beginning of "The Twin Soul’s Development," but we will explain it briefly here. He is "all male" and seeks a woman who is all female. Sounds pretty good, huh? But wait...

The Hetero-g male is domineering, possessive, with little creative passion or compassion. He is not sensitive or understanding to the feelings of LOVE. To him Love is SEX and he desires plenty of it in variety. 

The Hetero-g female is passive, undemanding, compliant, loving and compassionate who wants to raise a family and have comfort and security provided for her. To get this she complies with the will of the Hetero-g male. But do they really have anything in common? No. And sadly such relationships don't usually last. Why? Because of the Universal Law of Attraction. "Like attracts Like," and these two are as opposite as the two halves of the Yin Yang symbol. 

M:> So what happens?

Z:> Both keep on looking for what they think they don't have even while in a relationship. The Hetero-g male seeks a self-assured and less compliant woman. The Hetero-g female seeks a male more sensitive to her feelings which the Hetero-g male lacks. They often part and continue seeking.

This is the experience by which both grow. It doesn’t happen in one lifetime. It takes many lifetimes to get right. That which is lacking is not in the other person, it is within themselves. This change happens slowly over time.

M:> In other words, reincarnation?

Z:> Yes, reincarnation.

M:> But what if one doesn't believe in reincarnation?

Z:> It doesn't matter what you believe or don't believe. While you do create your own personal reality through your choices, you do so under the universal law of ultimate reality. Those things you cannot change are, Reincarnation, Twin Souls, and the fact that We are ALL God.

M:> So if the Twin Soul is the perfect mate, what about Soul Mates? Can we seek and find one of these?

Z:> Yes, you can seek and find one or more of these. While the Twin Soul is the only one who is the other half of your soul, there are two other kinds of very desirable soul mates---Near Twins and Companion Souls.

M:> And we can pair-bond with any of those Near Twins of the opposite gender?

Z:> You can pair-bond with any of those of either gender. Your religions have taught you that relationships must be among two persons of the opposite gender, but that was strictly for procreation. Two or more of the same gender can and do unite in spiritual bonds that transcend many conventional relationships.

M:> I suppose you will touch on that subject in another article?

Z:> I will, for it and other topics now are rather controversial in your cultures. There are other Soul Mates, such as, Companion Souls that form wonderful bonds.

M:> Is that why Caryl in some cases prefers to use the term, "Companion Mates" instead of Soul Mates?

Z:> Exactly! All spiritual unions of divine love are Soul Mate relationships. That is why there is so much confusion over what is, and what is not a Twin Soul, and why some think they can seek and find their Twin Soul. You can't. When you are ready, when the bi-gender balance or Bi-G Balance is achieved, then the mate to your soul—your other half--will be drawn to you.

If incarnated at the same time and you both have charted reunion in this life your Twin Soul will always be of the opposite gender, whereas Near Twins and Companion Souls can be of either gender. Your Twin is the ultimate in Soul Mate connections but life between you two will never be "perfect." Remember, Twins approach everything from opposite directions.  There are bound to be clashes. Next to the Twin Soul in compatibility is the "Near Twin,"  followed by the "Companion Soul."

M:> Aren't we getting into the same semantics mess with the term, "Companion Souls?" All are potential “companions.” Can't there still be some confusion over the term?

Z:> Yes, there could be, but it is the term we have chosen to use. We will define it so there will be no confusion.

M:> Are there other kinds of relationships besides those listed above?

Z:> Yes there are, but they are not spiritual in nature. Hetero-g relationships are often based on "sexual attraction" or "need" rather than Love. Contrary to what most will tell you, there is nothing wrong with sexual attraction. It is a divine process. It is by that attraction one is lead to desire the ultimate experience with your Twin Soul. There is nothing "sinful" about it. However, this desire alone is not enough to build a relationship upon.  You need more soul substance in common.

That is enough for now. More will follow in the Twin Soul Series explaining divine relationships -- the structure of the soul and the hierarchy of God, which are one in the same. And we will discuss such things as how to recognize your Twin Soul. It doesn't always happen with "love at first sight." One will generally recognize the other before both realize their connection.   Caryl was the one who awakened you, opened your eyes to see what was obvious with the heart.

Some believe that finding their Twin Soul is some kind of "singles dating" thing. Nothing could be farther from the truth. When the twins are ready, forces of the universe will draw them together and nothing can prevent it. You may not even be "single or looking."

Neither Melvyn or Caryl were searching for their perfect mate when Zarna and helped draw them together. Mel and his wife had been married twenty-five years, and Caryl and her husband over 30 years. They were both a little old for "the dating game." Besides half a continent separated them, but when the forces of the universe say, “MOVE,” you move.

Physically incarnated and reunited Twin Souls are still rare. It is a major event of cosmic significance and it is always for some larger spiritual purpose when it happens. It is not to satisfy two lonely hearts. Such a major cosmic event is coming in the next ten years (2012,) and Melvyn Caryl’s mission as is to be heralds to that event--to prepare the way. Others are doing the same, but these two are our emissaries and your friends.

Until our next article, be at Peace and Share the Love that God Gives freely.  

It is Our gift to you.

Zeb & Zarna

From the ZZ Messages

ZZ 4:1 …Before this time, when we were as you are, we had guides, guardians and Gods as you do. We completed and perfected our souls as you are now doing.  We finished that cycle and merged with our soul-half and became One Androgynous being in the same sense you will be…

ZZ 14:20 …We are creators, healers, lovers, and friends, and so are you. There is nothing supernatural about this. Share this with others so they will not put the "things of God" so far from their touch…

Zeb & Zarna, Melvyn Caryl,   

08/31/03
(Revised and updated, 03/07/07)

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