Hello, this is Caryl of Melvyn Caryl. Often when we go to Zeb and Zarna with a question in mind they will briefly address our concerns and then take off in another direction. Such was the case when we began the following channeling session. It was long with continued expansion on the topic of love and the need for balance. We have decided to present this expansion to you in a series podcasts. We hope you will be inspired by the information and that it will help you each of you towards your personal spiritual goals.

Mel is in full trance and has no idea of the questions I am about to ask.

Zeb: > Good evening, Princess.

Caryl: > Good Evening Zeb.

Zeb: > What is it you would like to discuss this evening?

Caryl: > In our recent message to the public through our last podcast we explored the topic of Love. You defined love as the cohesive force that holds all things together. You also shared with us how and imbalance in either a masculine of feminine aspect can hold us back from experiencing the fullness of Love.

I thought it might be useful to our listeners to learn about the masculine and feminine balance, what are the strengths and weaknesses with each gender and how is balance achieved for each?

Zeb: > Again we are speaking in generalities here and they are not specific to love in particular.

Caryl: > I realize that.

Zeb: > You are talking about the Powers of Love. And the powers of love within human kind can be both constructive and destructive. Love is Divine when the source it comes from is divine. Often times the love that comes from humankind is of other purposes. Their love for power. Their love for control. Their love for revenge.

Caryl: > I see.

Zeb: > Love can be a destructive force as well as a constructive force. So again these aspects can be found in both genders. You find that there is a lessening of barriers to the inner verses the outer, it’s just that with the feminine aspect generally the inner values—that which deals with spirituality, that which deals with emotion and intuition, that which deals with love, is more prominent than it is with the masculine, which deals with the physical side of things--such as protection, building things. These are the things that differ.

Now when the balance is off…

What we were referring to in that first podcast was when a male, for instance, had little appreciation for the values of the female, when he in turn felt that he was more important for his share of the responsibilities in life than the woman. And also the same thing can be said for the woman if she felt she was more important than the man.

It is in this balance where you both rely upon each other equally as equal partners, that you find your harmony. And harmony is what you are trying to achieve. That is balance.

What we could add to that is that anytime you have more focus on the physical—the here and now—today this moment, what it takes to accomplish your life rather than living your life to its fullest is going to create an imbalance. When you are doing--the doingness of accomplishing the necessities of survival, for instance, when the focus becomes so great on this side (the physical) that you fail to take notice of the inner needs, the inner strengths that support those physical drives, then is where you have an imbalance.

It is not all accomplished with the physical, with the intellect and that is where perhaps the intellect can fool you more than anything. You think you can accomplish everything that you need to do in the physical world through the intellectual ability.

These things often override and over shadow the things that are for you to build that are far more important. That is the living of your life, the enjoyment of your life, the loving of each other as well as the loving of yourself.

These aspects should never take a back row seat, should never come second. They should be on the same level of priority even thought they don’t generate income. They create the energy, the drive, the passion that you have so that you can create income.

You have no doubt heard of people who have been suffering from burn out in their profession. This is where one comes to the point of realization that every thing they worked for was for naught—building a career, building an education so that they can have that career, building this, building that, accomplishing this… and then… once you get that, what do you have if you have left your inner needs, the touch with your inner self behind during the time and the processes that you have put into the physical? You will feel empty or burned out.

Caryl: > I understand. What you are basically saying is, “Stop and smell the roses.”

Zeb: > Yes, one should stop and smell the roses! (Zeb smiles) That is almost as important as important as it is to stop and pick up your pay check.

Caryl: > (Laughter) Well it would be ideal if we could combine those both into one…

Zeb: > You would have balance! The main thing is, you don’t have to wait until you retire in order to get to that point. Enjoy each day as it comes. Enjoy the process of accomplishing.

It’s not a rat race, it is a glory creation. It’s an opportunity for you to create. See it that way and it will change your appreciation. Then you can have your “cake and eat it too.”

Laughter

Caryl: > This concludes our session for this evening. Be sure to visit our website: zebandzarna.com and if would like to be added to our announcement list or have any questions please feel free to send us an email.

Until next time…
Be Love

Copyright, Melvyn Caryl
March 2008