PodCast #3 – Love and Balance Part 2

Hello, this is Caryl of Melvyn Caryl.

Often when we go to Zeb and Zarna with a topic in mind, they will briefly address our concerns and then take off in another direction.

Such was the case when we began the following channeling session. It was long with continued expansion on the topic of love and the need for balance. We have decided to present this expansion to you in a series of several podcasts. We hope you will be inspired by this information, and that it will help each of you toward your personal spiritual goals.

Mel is in full trance and has no idea of the questions I am about to ask.

The sessions begins with me asking Zeb a question.

Caryl: > Not long ago you explained that because of the present patriarchal setting on our planet that men choose to incarnate into, that they sometimes fall behind their female twin partner during the incarnation process.

You suggested that men tend to be more focused on supporting and caring for others, being the “bread winner” and often do not take, or are not given, the time necessary to develop their spiritual side.

Zeb: > True.

Caryl: > So what kinds of things can they do that will help them toward that?

Zeb: > They can study spirituality and apply it. Let it awaken the thoughts within them. But this is not just for men. Your focus on the men discounts the fact, on that you are very well aware of, that certain religions handicap their women.

Caryl: > Yes.

Zeb: > Anytime a woman follows the constrictions of religion, so much that she is willing to give up her power, freedom, and existence to her male counterpart, then she has lost something.

Caryl: > She has lost her sovereignty.

Zeb: > True. The balance. The balance, and it’s not only in other parts of the world. It is where you live. It occurs everyday in every different way.

Caryl: > Yes.

Zeb: > She has to strengthen her masculine side to be more balanced. It is no different than the man needs to slow down, enjoy that which he and she have created jointly. If men would spend more time relieving the woman from her work, just a little bit, he would appreciate her side a little more. If he completely separates himself from that side, then he will not be appreciative of what it is that she does. And it is that appreciation above all that she seeks and longs for in her counterpart.

Caryl: > This is true.

Zeb: > So these are the balances that are practiced. What can you do? Experience the other. In most cases everyone has their own gender role down pat. It comes from your spiritual influences. It comes from your community. It comes from your family. Step outside the box. Experiment. Find out what is out there. Don’t ignore it. If you expect your man to step into your box, be ready to step into his box and experience what he does.

Mow the grass!

(Laughter)

Carry out the trash!

(Both laugh)

Caryl: > Use the saw.

Zeb: > You have to balance them both.

Caryl: > I understand.

Zeb: > So that if you can appreciate both then you are on the road to achieving balance.

Caryl: > I know that you did not mean to imply that just because a woman stays at home she cannot achieve balance.

Zeb: > Oh no. No! But if she stays within her role-type as a homemaker… I won’t call her a housewife...

Caryl: > Thank you for that.

(Both laugh)

Zeb: > …and does nothing to experience the larger community, rather than all the many other things that go on that make microcosm of your family, then she will not find balance. It is when both of you have this balance that you have this power of the universe…the power of the law of attraction that draws twin souls together. If you think for a moment, you will not be drawn, and united with your twin soul while you are needful of your twin to fulfill a part of your life.

That is not the way it works. When you are needful that means that you have not reached a level of balance in your own life. Yet you expect to be able to draw into your life this opposite gendered same soul individual that we call a Twin Soul.

When you least need him or her. When you LEAST NEED him or her, then he will come, or she will come. The reason why you least need them is because you are complete within yourself.

That is the message that you need to get out. Many confuse romantic liaisons, romantic experiences of where two people fulfill each others needs, as a Twin Soul relationship. That is not what twin souls are all about.

They forget the word, “Soul.” If they were to call it Twin Relationships, Twin Friends, Twin Partners, fine. But when you speak of Twin Souls you are speaking of something of the divine, that is of God, that is of the inner most you. That is what the whole path of the soul is about.

It’s not about how you learn. You don’t learn balance. You do balance. It is something that you accomplish through doing.

Yes, reading and practicing, and incorporating The Seven Powers of the Goddess Principle–the powers of love will help. When you accomplish those seven powers—that are in your e-book… when you internalize them you will realize the completion and fulfillment of your life. And it takes many, many, many cycles.

It is very difficult for one to change what they grew up with and say, “I recognize its right to be, but it’s not me any more.”

Step away from religious dogmas that tend to bind instead of free.

I don’t know where else we would want to go with this…

Caryl: > Well I think that we have about exhausted our time limit. This concludes our session for this evening. Those who are interested in checking out our website http//www.zebandzarna.com and visit and leave questions if they like.

Zeb: > Be Love, Zeb and Zarna…

Copyright Melvyn Caryl

March 2008