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Same Sex Twin Souls
And other Clarifications:

Terminology we Use and Why

It should come as no complete surprise to anyone that one's physical gender or sexual preferences has nothing to do with their bi-gender balance and being drawn to their Twin Soul. Yet, a careless misinterpretation by even me can result in that.

But how, you may ask of me, the one who receives these words directly from Zeb and Zarna?

Most channelers receive knowings in a burst of information from the other side to which we use our words to transcribe or translate what we receive to give to others. Remember, "God does not speak with words, we do."

Well, it is true, and everywhere words are used, they are subject to misinterpretation for they are but symbols of the meaning they represent. Let me give you the example that misled me from The Soul's Development: Maturity vs Age. It occurs in a dialogue between Zeb and myself.

Mel:> Then the Homo-g cannot meet his or her Twin Soul?
Zeb:> No more so than the Hetero-g can.

For those who don't remember the "Hetero-g" and "Homo-g" terms, those are the two end extremes of the scale with "bi-gender" balance in the middle. I began to make the connection between the soul development of "hetero-gender" and the physical state of the "Alpha male, in my mind at that moment, dominant, ego driven etc, and the opposite extreme "Homo-gendered" as gay and lesbian.

Not so!

For those quicker of wit than I am--what was the first mistake that should have jumped out at me? If you guessed forgetting the title of the article, "The Soul's Development," you are right.

But Zeb reminded me for reasons only He knows that I am one of their two Speakers and as such a devoted teacher of their truth. It is up to me to clarify my own mistakes when they are brought to my attention by anyone--especially ZZ. For anyone who demonstrates anything less than full love and acceptance to any of their spiritual brothers and sisters is not demonstrating unconditional love, love without expectations and judgments.

Perhaps this should show all of us how easy it is to read over a spiritual text and not "get it." Yet for me, each time I repeat the study, something new opens up like a light coming on. I’m sure we have all had this experience. Perhaps that is part of the fun of it. Something "new" opens up in our understanding every time we go over familiar material. We never really reach the state where we know it all--at least not in this physical plane. Our minds can't contain it all and we must rely on the handicap of words. Well, for this one Zeb had to pull my chain a little to wake me up.

So two women (or two men) providing both have reached the state of soul development where they balance their inner feminine and masculine tendencies (emotions, intuition, and sensitivity to intellect, logic and inner strength--(Bi-Gender Balance) can be Twin Souls.

This is brought about by the experience of life and is usually accelerated by an awakening usually triggered spiritual study. Read the new article, "A Change of Heart" (which will be posted soon) that shows the process of spiritual development through seven stages of growth. This gives my personal trials and tribulations of my path as an example of what at least one person experienced. Caryl may add her experiences to give another.

Each soul has their primary “soul-gender” or aspect, from the moment of the first Twin Soul split and they are incarnated as male and female. But the soul is energy it has no gender. Perhaps force, aspect or orientation would be a better words.

Most often one incarnates in that masculine or feminine aspect as male or female gender, but not always. Now the scenario becomes interesting. What if two women--one of whom has a primary soul gender, force, aspect or orientation as masculine--reach their bi-gender balance in the same lifetime? If they are Twin Souls to each other they will be drawn together and no power of "Heaven or Earth" can prevent it.

I'll bet most of you, like me, considered that those words related to Twins who are married to their respective Companion Mates--like Caryl and me. Well, that is one example, but not the only one. Sexual persuasion can be another. When the time comes to move, we are moved by powers beyond our control. This is the Universal Law of Attraction ("like attracts like"). When the souls are ready, it happens.

You may wonder why a soul with a primary masculine orientation would incarnate as a female. Simple ... To experience the fullness of the human experience you must have "walked in the other's shoes," for at least once in your many lifetimes. All soul development results from experience and if you haven't "been there and done that" in at least one past or current life then you have not experienced all of "the human experience."

This is but one example of the learning experience of having "been there and done that." Read The Dark Side of the Light Chasers (see our recommended reading list) for other examples of life experience that helps develop empathy and true understanding of oneness. To be complete we all experience every facet of life.

So the masculine soul aspect we referred to above chooses for his final life experience incarnation as a woman and reaches bi-gender balance. Remember, Twin Soul reunion does not occur until your final physical incarnated life experience. She may well live out her entire life experience heterosexually inclined, or reach the point where she feels she has gained all there is from that sexual persuasion and choose to become homosexually inclined, or somewhere in the middle (bisexually inclined). It is up to her and her choices.

Once two who are incarnated reach bi-gender balance they will be drawn together as One, regardless of gender or sexual persuasion. On the Other side, it doesn't make any difference--we are all energy over there.

Twin Flames, Twin Souls & Yin and Yang

Once we were asked what was the difference between "Twin Flames" and Twin Souls and somewhere we answered, nothing, they are the same. But it is worth mentioning again here.

The term "Twin Flames" is of Sufi origin and "Twin Souls" dates back so far into antiquity its origin can't be accurately determined, but they both refer to the masculine and feminine aspects we all have within us and the special link each of us share with the other half of our soul. It is similar to the concept of "Yin & Yang." Some New Age writers don’t buy into the concept yet they still teach that we are all composites of masculine and feminine natures and often use the "intellect" and "emotion" as contrasts. Few authoritative sources anymore claim we are either "All Male" or "All Female." Even psychologists have bought into their own version of "Right-brain vs Left-brain" orientation. "A rose is a rose" regardless of what it’s called.

A Word About the Terminology we Use and Why

We have been asked why we use such terms as Composite Soul, Bi-Gender Balance, Hetero-G and Homo-G etc.

We do use some new terms, but actually try as much as possible to use terms that many will associate with. For instance the term God. Caryl asked Zeb long ago if this term should be replaced with something that is more in line with the multifaceted energy being we are part of (God). However ZZ instructed us that changing the word God would confuse the issue, and that when possible to use the familiar and only re-term when what is typically used does not actually fit the new understanding as given by ZZ.

For example, many might call the Composite Soul the Higher Self. And it is, but the word Higher Self does not give the picture that we are more than One. We are legion—and our higher self comprises all of that which we are and have been. It took us some time to agree on many of the terms that would more accurately define ZZ’s teachings. The same goes for Bi-Gender Balance. Many call this an androgynous state. But the word picture that brings is not what we wished to imply. ZZ tells us that in physicality we are always our created aspect even if we choose to incarnate as the opposite gender—masculine or feminine. Feminine or Masculine does not become a cross between the two—we simply balance the aspect of our inner twin—the opposite aspect that is always part of us but lays dormant until we begin to use it in balance. It is not until we unite through the ceremony of the Marriage of Lights on the Otherside that we become One androgynous being, in essence fully reunited or merged with our Twin Soul.

We welcome your comments on this article and questions on any other term or concept we constantly use. But first check in the Glossary to see if it is there, and then if further clarification is still necessary, please email us. If we don't know we will take it to ZZ and we will share what we get here on The Voice.

We are all One and loved by God as the Gods and Goddesses we are.

With Love to All,
Melvyn Caryl 6/4/05

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