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Well, I
can say that it is pretty hard to determine ‘a’ Twin Soul—meaning
someone else’s Twin Soul. It is a lot easier to determine ‘your’
Twin Soul. In fact, from the standpoint of physicality, the only ones who
can really know for sure are the twins themselves and their Creator Gods
who brought them into being. On the Otherside, our identity, personal,
Composite Soul, our Soul Family, and our Soul Group are all identifiable
by our soul signature—our light vibration which is
matched only by the Twin Soul. Everyone on the Otherside knows who your
twin is, and so do you.
First I
think it is worth mentioning that until recently—according to Zeb and
Zarna—there have been very few
Twin Souls reunited in physicality. It has been a rarity. But with the
coming of this new Grand Cycle, Twin Souls and Near Twins are beginning to recognize each other in
greater numbers. This is because many “Mature Souls” are finishing
their incarnational cycles and will ascend to the next level on the
Otherside--an event countless souls planned in the before-life to coincide
with the coming of this New Beginning.
There
are many things a person can look for when they suspect they may have been
brought to their twin. You will find that there is a physical and
emotional empathy between them. Just like the stories we hear of
biological twins being able to sense the feeling of their twin sister or
brother—Twin Souls will be connected in such a way that they will often
get sick at the same time—feel each others pain and pleasure even from
large distances. My twin and I were 2000 miles apart when I felt him leave
his body, during his near death experience. You can read about this in Who
is Melvyn Caryl. And also in Near Death Experience.
Twins
will usually exhibit similar interests and talents. They will discover
synchronicities in their childhood--sometimes similar family situations.
(See-- Twin
Soul Synchronicities.)
Using
Melvyn Caryl as an example, as a child, I was trained as a classical
dancer, and in my teenager and young adult years I taught ballroom
dancing. During the days of early Rock and Roll, there was a local TV show
where I used to dance just for fun with a bunch of friends—like American
Bandstand.
Mel in
another city halfway across the country did the same thing at the same
time—both taught dancing, and for fun danced on the local TV show.
In the 1970’s I began to paint—oil landscapes—in the same year Mel
began to paint—oil landscapes. We both chose similar subjects, often so
close as to believe we were painting from the same photograph. We both
stopped painting in exactly the same year.
When we
were brought together we were both writing novels. We both have
dyslexia—that manifests itself in different ways. The synchronicities go
on and on. These are the kind of things that you look for.
But I
think, for me, and for others that I have spoken to who are sure that they
have found their twin, there is a “knowing.”
You just know
it is your twin—even if you don’t know there is such a thing—because
it feels different from anything you have experienced before. This does
not mean you don’t love others—you do, and should—but the Twin
connection ‘feels’ different.
Now, I
would like to dispel a myth—the romantic
notion that all Twin Soul relationships are perfect with no
challenges between them—the happily-ever-after myth! You are drawn to
your twin. There is incredible connection--love that just grabs your heart
if you let it--and passion that can be felt telepathically between twins
who are separated by great distances. Remember, this is
the other half of yourself—your soul vibration reaches out and connects.
You may
not have consciously asked for this reunion—we sure didn’t! You
can’t help it. And you can’t stop it. Your Twin Soul is your created
mate, perfect mate—IF—you
have achieved masculine/feminine balanced.
But few
of us walk into a Twin Soul recognition in perfect balance. This is often
discouraging to the person who has found their twin and one or the other
hasn’t quite achieved balance. It is a difficult time, but through love
and following the inner voice for guidance, the more advance twin can
often help the other toward a spiritual path which if followed can bring
them into balance.
It
is usually
the female that matures first and often makes the first recognition of her
Twin Soul--but not always.
(See
-- Developing Spiritual
Relationships)
Soul
Mate Relationships
Something
needs to be said about Soul
Mates. So far this site lacks in stressing the importance of Soul
Mate relationships. Not everyone is going to meet their Twin Soul in
physicality. My husband’s twin is waiting for him to join her on the Otherside. So even Mature Souls, who are on their last incarnation
sometimes for a number of reasons choose not
to plan reunification in physicality.
An
important point that most miss is that Near
Twin couples often mistake themselves for Twin Souls. This is
usually marked by what appears to be the perfect relationship, loving,
compatible, where everything goes just perfectly. They have the same
interests and the same soul-born talents. These are souls who were soul-born
within seconds of each other. We do not come into soul-being one at a
time, (According to Zeb, it does happen but not usually) but in bunches—like a litter. These souls are all Near
Twins. Their soul signatures will be very close.
The
difference between a Twin
Soul relationship and a Near
Twin relationship is that Near Twin is not the opposite half—and
therefore there is less struggle or need for adjustment. They more easily
match. This is a beautiful Spiritual Relationship that in my opinion does
not get enough attention. These are the ones that most individuals in our
world should try to find, as in looking for—not your Twin Soul. The Twin Soul is
brought to you when the time is right if
reunification has been planned in the before-life.
(More
about Near Twins -- The Power of
Love)
Occasionally,
you will be brought to your twin as a prelude of things to come in an
early recognition. I am
aware of many instances where the woman recognizes her twin, yet it is
years before they actually experience reunion.
A
word about Companion Soul relationships.
These
are souls who are soul-friends from the Otherside and have charted many lives as
players in their life dramas. My husband and I are companion mates. In his
last incarnation before this one, I was his sister. This time he became my
husband and protector. These are also spiritual relationships that are
often mistaken for Twin
Soul relationships. These couples are compatible not because of matching
soul signatures, but because they “know” each other. They have shared
many lifetimes. So look for a Near Twin, or a Companion Mate, but your
Spirit Guides and Guardians will help you find your Twin Soul when you are
ready.
Zeb
tells us there are more souls of middle
soul developed and young
soul development on our planet right now. They are not ready for
the intensity of a Twin Soul relationship. In fact, they would repel each
other at this stage.
“K,”
I hope this answers your question. Whatever type of Spiritual relationship
comes your way; we sincerely wish you the greatest happiness.
Thank
you for your question.
Demonstrate
the love that you are,
Always,
Caryl, of Melvyn Caryl 12/12/04
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