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Twin Soul Evolution

Understanding the
Soul's Progress Toward
Twin Soul Reunion

By

Melvyn Caryl

Introduction:

Dear Friends,

If you have been a visitor to our site for any length of time then you probably have noticed that Mel writes most of the ‘formal’ articles and most of my writing consists of informal answers to questions that we receive in emails. Often we get questions that we feel the answers will benefit others. So this article is a collection of questions put to us by a visitor and the corresponding answers. The names have been changed to maintain this visitor’s privacy.

The ZZ Message is an unfolding message. Mel and I do not have all the answers, but ZZ does. The point is that at the time we give answers to a question we do so based upon the information that we have available to use from ZZ at that time. However, Zeb and Zarna continually add layers of understanding. The reality of a subject does not but rather they expand the scope. This makes it equally exciting for us for there always is more to learn. An example of this is the recent article, The Paths Not Taken. Understanding this article requires a mind-boggling expansion of thinking for most—especially if one has always thought of themselves as singular. We are not singular, but many in Oneness.

With Love always,
Caryl, of Melvyn Caryl

Q -- Why do we not have memory of our twin? Does memory of our twin come when we come together?

It is only on this side that we do not have memory of our twin. On the Otherside in between lives, we know who our twin is and make incarnation plans together with them. It is only as we approach the time of our last life on this side that we may become aware of who our twin is--and this only if reunion on this side has been planned. Twins often incarnate as siblings or parents—any number of different life players. Some like my twin and I always stay close to one another.

Many do not know about the Twin Soul concept before meeting their twin. But like Mel and I, they often recognize that there is something special between them and eventually stumble upon the Twin Soul concept.

When you are reunited with your Twin Soul and sometimes with a Near Twin, often there are memories that do surface from past lives. This does not always happen, but it can.

Q -- Is our soul currently in other dimensions while we are here? Are we separate or are we still ourselves?

The subject of the soul is not something I can explain in length in a short note. There are a number of articles on the site that tell about the progression of the soul. If you have not done so you would benefit from reading the glossary and doing a search with the site search engine on the subject. (as soon as we get it working again) There is much information already posted. But the question you pose suggests that you do not yet fully understand the multi-dimensionality of your being.

You are more than you think you are. You are a part of your soul’s individuations. You are part of the whole of what you are—a multi-dimensional being who often lives concurrent lives (which Zeb has termed “Poloygeneration”) not to mention all the fragments you produce in just one lifetime.

Think of yourself as a body. The body has cells—and each cell is part of that body—the brain cell may look different from a skin cell, but it is all part of the same body, and each holds its individual identity. Each is complete on its own. So it is with you. You have a twin who is the split aspect of your soul—the other half--a division much like cell division. Each time you incarnate and return home, your Composite Soul—that part of you that is also part of your twin--creates another version and sends it out again. It is easier if you think of this in terms of cell division. So yes there is a part of your soul that is at Home. You are so much more than just you. Think of all the fragments that you create that exist in alternate dimensions? They are you too. Other “soul” cells.

Q -- If our soul is in other dimensions does our composite soul know what it is learning or even doing on other planets and dimensions?

It is my understanding that the Composite Soul is similar to the controller that monitors all that you are. So yes it does know. It is a collective. But remember your Composite is not just all the “yous” you have been, it is also your Twin’s other selves too.

Q -- Are we a whole or just pieces of a whole?

You are Mary and as an incarnated personality (being) you are whole. But you are also part of all that is “you”—which is more than just Mary. When you return after completion of your incarnation cycle you will join with your twin and all the other aspects of “you” from other lifetimes in the Marriage of Lights. This is when you become One with not just your Twin but all of Who You Are, and merge with the experiences of all your united selves.

Q -- If we (as a female) are just half of a soul, does that mean there could be many other aspects of our soul we have not connected with yet?

Yes of course—but this has nothing to do with you being the feminine half.

Q -- My questions come about this because I feel like a whole.

You are. You are the whole Mary. But who were you in your last former life? Let’s call her Rita. Rita is not Mary. However, Mary is all that Rita is and more. During the Marriage of Lights Rita gets to know and embrace all that Mary and others have experienced in their lives, plus all the fragments that Mary created that lived “The Paths Not Taken.”

It is a mind boggling amount of information when you consider all the fragments and alternate realities that each personality has created. So contrary to what many believe, the joining of Twins and the coming Marriage of Lights on the Otherside that they will soon experience is so much more than Romantic Mythology. It is a Graduation. It is a sign that we have fulfilled the goals of our chart and are ready to move on.

Q -- I have worked hard to be a whole but I do know there are gaps in me and places that are not as good as they could be.

Here you are talking about personality not soul. You have worked to be all that Mary can be as an experiential person.

Q -- And how do we, who feel so much like a whole, accept the idea that we are not a whole?

You are. And so is your twin. You see it appears that you have bought into the idea that you are singular. You are not. Each individuation is a whole unto itself, and at the same time it is part of a larger composite being. Like the cells of a body. It’s all one body, many cells.

Q -- And is meeting your twin a start of accepting that we are not a whole?

No. If this person is truly your twin then it is a sign that you are nearing completion of your incarnational cycle—that you have done all you planned to do with all your lives, and are heading home. There you will become merged with your twin and all the rest of who you are, but you will always keep you individuality—you will always be Mary.

Q - Is that so we can learn to connect with other parts of our soul?

It is not so much something that you learn as it is something that naturally happens. But even when you unite, you will still have freedom and individuality. You are not stuck to your Twin!

Q -- If that is true, and I am getting a little nudge in me that it is, then I must say they did it in a beautiful way because the draw to a twin is intense and having it be the opposite sex would be the ONLY way I as a person who feels whole could accept that I am not a whole.

Well you are whole in the sense that you do not need another to be fulfilled. And this is the point in your spiritual evolution where your Twin can be drawn to you if you have planned it. You each have to be a balanced and whole individually for that to happen.

This feeling you have is the naturally drawing or craving of the soul to be in Oneness with All That Is. Our soul comes from a spark of our spiritual parents and the natural craving of the soul is to return to the Oneness from which it came. The last moment of “togetherness” that you share with your Twin half is like a single cell before it divides. The process of dividing from our Twin is called individuation. From that moment forward we are on a journey outward away from our source creation and toward experience through physical incarnation. We become multi-dimensional beings.

All attraction to partners or love pairings we have in every life is a yearning to replicate that feeling of togetherness we had with our twin before individuation. Every relationship is to mimic that feeling we once had. So when we find our Twin on this side, it is this connection, this feeling of coming near completion that we experience. This is just a small first step on the road home.

Our twin is often the avenue or catalyst for us to achieve Divine Communion with our Spiritual Parents--though there are other ways this can be achieved by one who approaches masculine/feminine balance

Q -- For in a male there are parts that are so incredibly attractive to me. The deep voice, the strong arms, etc. Those things draw me to a male. There are also the differences that are less obvious - like how gentle and kind a male can be with a female etc. I have never thought the differences others disliked in men were bad - I have always liked them and thought them a very good fit.

I agree—but this is a sign of a woman who is strong in herself as a balanced feminine.

Q -- I have one more question tonight and I know it is probably not in your articles but I was "told" this and am curious if you know anything about it. Are there other souls that are around the twins to protect (not the word I like but the only one I can think of) the twins until they are together?

I have not heard Zeb and Zarna mention anything specifically about this, however we arrange situations like this in the before life with others for many reasons. It would not be out of line to think that you might pre-arrange some support. You always have your spirit guides near you and you can call on them—but you have to be willing to listen to your inner voice for this is usually the way they speak to you.

Q -- I thank you for listening to Zeb and Zarna. I thank them for contacting you, and I especially thank you for the time and effort you have put into giving the information to us that are looking for it. Just a question for you, how in the world did you understand all of this? It is complex and much more in-depth than what I have read so far.

Well it did not happen over night. We had some understanding to begin with, but we just kept asking questions until we had clarifications. And we still do. It helped that we kept an open mind and did not allow past religious biased to limit the answers they would give. It did not come from us but through us—mostly Mel. What always amazes me is that the ZZ Message continues to build to greater heights of understanding. The reality of “what is,” is so much more that we have ever been told and far greater that we can ever imagine.

Q -- If twins are here to experience and become whole - are there earthly duties or jobs that are a part of their quest to become whole?

I would say you are here to work toward completion rather than to become whole. You live life after life to achieve a level of balance within yourself—and each person has their own way of doing that. We chart obstacles in our path as tools to help us achieve a level of life practice where we have some degree of control over the creative process. There is no specific duty. But if you look at the article on the site that tells about Age vs. Maturity you will get a feel for the process of spiritual evolution.

For the woman it is to develop her masculine aspect and still retain her feminine abilities and strive for personal sovereignty and self reliance. For a man it is to develop his feminine aspect—his emotional side without losing the strength and power of his masculine aspect. It is all about balance and we do many things in a life to achieve these goals. We design them ourselves. When charting we look at our most recent past life—the goals that were achieved and the ones that weren’t, and then set goals to approach those we have charted for overall life plan. It is very extensive. ZZ gives us complete freedom to do this as we choose—the only rule is Harm None.

Near Twins, (NT) and Mission Clusters

Q -- For some reason I can't seem to quite understand what near twins are. I do know I have met people that feel so good to me - People I like to hug and be around just because they "feel" good. Are these the near twins?

They could be. Near Twins usually have many things alike. They will usually mirror your interests and abilities.

Q -- They feel rather similar to my twin but they do not have the combination of the mental and physical dance I feel with my twin.

Some will, and in some cases will give you more of this dance than your Twin Soul, especially if you and your Twin Soul are not at the same level of maturity. What you need to remember is that an NT is a twin—so many forget this. They are like fraternal twins as compared to identical twins. But the confusing part that usually causes so many to believe the NT is the TS is that they are more like you than your Twin Soul. Your Twin is the opposite half of you. I call this your complementary opposite. Your very closest NT is nearly a replication of you.

Use the mental image of a single explosion of fireworks as metaphor of soul creation. Imagine that from this one burst there are hundreds, sometimes thousands of individual sparks, but they all originated from the same burst of energy. All of those sparks from that one blast would be Near Twins. The spark closest to you would be your closest Near Twins. Your soul signatures are almost identical.

Mission Group Cluster

Q -- Do we link up with different members in this grouping for different missions we have in life?

Yes and no. Not exactly. Your Mission Cluster is your soul birth Home your closest soul community. Within a Mission Cluster there will be many “Twin Soul Families.” A Twin Soul Family would be like all the beings who were created in that burst of energy--the blast of fireworks I told you about.

Many of these souls within the Mission Cluster will be soul- born with aptitudes and created abilities that are similar and they will follow a similar direction in their incarnations as they fulfill a part of the Divine Plan or over all “Mission” by planning their individual charts to correspond with the overall goals.

Think of it this way—The Divine (Gods) Plan is like a huge oak tree, with many limbs and branches, each one growing and all reaching into the sky. We are the countless leaves. But if you look at the vines (charts) in the leaves, you will see a similar branching that you see in the tree itself. We are the leaves of that tree and we chart our own plans--the veins of the leaf—but they are all part of the tree—God’s overall Divine Plan.

Q -- Do the mission clusters jobs gain in momentum and difficulty. Is the goal of the mission group to work for God?

I don’t believe ZZ has ever said that there is a plan for the Mission Cluster—but that is an interesting thought. I will put that on the list of questions. My hunch is that there is. There is an OverSoul for each Mission Clusters. The Mission Cluster is a smaller replication of the larger Soul Group. One Soul Group will have many Mission Clusters. It is the soul nursery. It is where we mature to prepare for incarnation. We don’t just go out and have a fling at physicality. It takes a certain amount of development before we are ready. When we finish a life we return to our Mission Cluster—it is our Home until the time of completion (graduation) when we join with all that we are and have ever been in the Marriage of Lights.

Q -- I know I am not asking these questions as clearly as I would like. It is like learning how to speak a different language and learning the meanings are difficult. I think a lot of what has been on the internet assumes that you have a knowledge of the information before you visit their sites.

I understand. We have tried to stay with traditional spiritual language when at all possible. However sometimes there is no word that fits the ZZ teachings and we try to make a simple one that will bring the closes image to mind. In most cases you are better off not having a bias of past misinformation to overcome.

Q -- When you come to this fast and furious because of your twin it feels like you are trying to play catch-up with what everyone else already seems to know.

I can tell you that many people think they know a lot more about the Twin Soul journey than they really do. There is so much misinformation out there.

Q -- I also suspect that a lot of Twins do come together without this information and I can now understand why it would not work.

Actually, true twins are usually not brought together before they are ready unless there is some emergency reason for that connection—such as a life threatening illness that will prevent the one Twin from achieving planned goals. They may meet when young if reunion on this side has been planned and go their separate ways to experience. It is possible that they may connect later in life if their spiritual maturity matches and they have accomplished their life objectives. But according to ZZ, early recognition—knowing when you are young that you have met your twin-- is rare. This cannot be said for the Near Twin. If Twins are brought together too soon it is almost always volatile.

Q -- I don't share any of this with anyone and it is odd how easy it is to share with you.

I understand. I get lots of email and many feel the same way. I think this is because they know I have been there and done that, and that I will not judge.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share your thoughtful questions and our answers with everyone.

One of the most challenging subjects ZZ has given us has been the journey of the Twin Soul. I am sure they are not finished giving us information about this. So far we have a good sketch of the process from the time of soul individuation to completion of your incarnational cycle. But what about after completion of our incarnational cycle and ascend to the Mental Realm after the Marriage of Lights? What then? We haven’t been given those answers yet. But I know there is much, much more to come, and to learn.

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